Why the fuck can't we be who we are, I mean isn't that what love is about for fucks sake? Accepting the nature of your spouse? I know it's possible. One of my friends is poly and married to a monogamous man. He is very accepting of her lifestyle, which is why they are happy. Ask the how it works, and you might be surprised. He is happy with her, she is happy with him and other partners. he doesn't want more, an neither does she, but thats not the point.
The point is they love each other, not own each other. A friend of mine once said recetly
"If you can't be who you are with someone, then that someone is not for you"
Monogamy might work for me, don't rule it out, with the right person. But don't expect e to change for the sake of change. That road leads only one way.
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Psh, humans are possessive and territorial and tend to see other people as a threat to their relationship status (which they often are). Relationships often involve a lot of vested time, effort, and interests.
ReplyDeleteWhen you think about it in terms of partnerships and investments, monogamy only makes sense, it's a safer and more manageable investment. In societies where both genders have rights it's no mistake that monogamy is correlated to intelligence when you consider the basic psychological needs and interests of people. I'm a sociopath incapable of monogamous relationships and even I get that, so why is it so hard for impulse driven empaths like yourself?
Btw, your typing skills are atrocious, and I still pwned you in WoW.
always good to know especially as it's highly unlikely I play on your server :p
ReplyDelete"I'm a sociopath incapable of monogamous relationships and even I get that, so why is it so hard for impulse driven empaths like yourself?"
ReplyDeleteYour also a bad reader because that's exactly what I said. Next poorly thought out comment please
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ReplyDeleteNot with my eyesight apparently, bye
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